What should I expect from my first one if I decide to attend?ĭS: The type of event you go to is really gonna determine what type of experience you're gonna have. I've never been to a sex party, but I've always been interested. I was joined by Daniel Saynt, founder and chief conspirator of The New Society For Wellness, (NSFW), a members-only sex club. This is an edited and condensed transcription from last week's 'Sexplain It Live,' which was recorded on Men's Health 's Instagram. To submit a question for a future column, fill out this form. Ask me anything-literally, anything-and I will gladly Sexplain It. I'm here to answer your most pressing sex questions with thorough, actionable advice that isn't just 'communicate with your partner,' because you know that already. In doing so, I've learned a thing or two about navigating issues in the bedroom (and a bunch of other places, TBH). Over the years, I've had my fair share of sexual experiences, dating and sleeping with hundreds of people of all genders and orientations. I'm Zachary Zane, a sex writer and ethical manwhore (a fancy way of saying I sleep with a lot of people, and I'm very, very open about it).